Some thoughts running through my mind this morning…
Realizing this morning, after a phone call yesterday, why I go directly to thinking I did something wrong when friendships evaporate.
The conversation went something like this. If I hear you are doing this, (whatever they didn’t like) I’m not going to call you again. Ouch. Words have power. The rest of the conversation was fantastic, just saying!
She said it teasingly but I realized it’s not this first time someone has put conditions on my friendship. Thus my light bulb moment in realizing, that as people wander out of my life, I think it’s because it’s my fault; not just a season or life’s busyness or their issues.
I get it - I’m not perfect but I really do not like change, especially when it involves people that I care about. Jesus, thank you for shining your light on this area in my heart. Bring your healing balm and keep me safe in your hands for you will never leave me. I put my hope in you.